Questions & Their Answers
Got questions? We have answers! And if we don’t, then get in touch with use and we will do our best to answer them quickly.
Bellow you will find the most frequently asked questions from escorts, advertisers & members.
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General
Paramour is New Zealand’s best looking, largest, and most advanced escort advertising platform. We can help you go from overlooked to overbooked!
As an escort you can advertise your services, post viral content, and keep all your communication within our platform with our messaging system. You can also keep all your bookings front of mind with our advanced booking fucntionality. Basically, Paramour is the one stop shop for you to thrust your escort business to the top!
We have built a user fcriendly experience for both providers and clients to make it easy to match desires with the people who can fulfill them.
No matter whe you are, what you provide, or what sort of adult friendly business you run – there is a place for you on Paramour.
That is completely up to you in terms of how often you want to work, and how much you charge. We find that escorts in New Zealand can make anywhere from $2000 – $10000 per week.
Of course, there are alot of other factors involved, for example – how many of your clients turn into regualars, the quality of your photography / videography, how high you are on the results of advertising platforms (like ours!) etc.
The beauty of this industry (apart from the players) is that you can choose when and where you work.
We also recommend getting some financial advise when you get started so you understand your tax obligations.
You can get started with a standard profile for free! Better still, Paramour commits to ALWAYS having a free advertising package to assist providsers in financial hardship.
Our paid advertising packages range in price, and are set at a reasonable and affordable amount. You can view our advertising rates here.
Due to our platform’s design & funcionality, we generally receive a higher calibre of clientelle.
That being said, the adult industry has been stigmatised for a long time and we recommend to always work in a risk adverse way. A great way to do this is to employ a driver for any private outcalls, and by practicing safe & sobre sexual services.
Keeping your wits about you is important!
We are a small team of problem solving enthusiasts & technologists behind Paramour. We come from various backgrounds, and have combined our unique set of skills to create an escort & adult services platform that makes adult fun simple.
Signing up with Paramour
Absolutely not! You are free to advertise anywhere you want, and we recommend you do – the more exposure the better. That being said, we work really hard on making sure our website ranks for any relevant keywords, so you don’t have to advertise anywhere else!
To create your profile, you firstg need to register as a provider on our sign up page.
From there, you can add a listing by choosing your advertising package and filling out the listing submission form.
Easy as, and can be done in under 10 minutes!
Your profile goes live as soon as you have submitted the listing details form.
If you have chosen to have your listing verified (highly recommeded), we aim to complete verification within 4 hours between 0800 – 2200 daily.
You don’t need to have professional or boudior style photography. But we highly recommend it – as it helps show your profile in the best possible light.
Your profile images should be professional in quality, and be an accurate representatrion. The higher quality images you provide, the more your profile will stand out on Paramour.
If you are wanting professional photography, we have listings for suitable photographers all over New Zealand that can help.
You sure can, and we recommend all escort agencies in New Zealand create a free agency profile, and then advertise their escorts.
If you work for an escort agency and want to get a profile up on Paramour – tell your agency to check out agency advertising page here.
Verification is a great way to build trust with potential clients. Having a verified profile also helps with your ranking on our escort search pages.
To have your profile verified, and receive the “Verification” badge – upload a photo of you holding your drivers licence or passport. Once we have verified that your age, and photos on your profile are accurate, we mark your profile as verified and delete the verification image.
Agency escort profiles are automatically marked as verified.
Business Advertising
Paramour receives the most targeted traffic for visitors lookig for simple adult fun. We also have the most traffic for New Zealand escort and adult services providers – who may be looking for tools and services to help them do what they do best.
We recommed anyone who offers services to clients and adult industry workers to advertise on Paramour. Here are some example categories:
- Accountants / Finance
- Adult Rooms & Accomodation
- Adult Stores & Shops
- Bio / Copywriters
- Cosmetic Surgery
- Drivers / Security
- Escort / Boudior Photographers
- Hair & Makeup
- Mentors
- Strip Clubs
- Sex Clubs
You should advertise your sex work friendly business on Paramour to receive targeted traffic and exposure in the adult industry.
As an advertiser – apart from the qualified and targeted exposure, you receive the following benefits:
- Use of the in built messaging system to simplify communication.
- Use of the booking system if you advertise adult working rooms / accommodation.
- The ability to advertise Jobs, Events, and respond to requests from escorts.
- The ability to sell tickets, passes, and other simple products.
- Advertise discount codes for use on your online store.
Client Membership
Becoming a member of Paramamour is completely free, and always will be!
With a client membership, you gain access to more content as well as interactive functionality. Here are some of the top of our head:
- Access to member only content on advertiser profiles.
- Use of the inbuilt messaging system.
- The ability to purchase tokens that can be used to enhance your experience on Paramour.
- The ability to read and write reviews.
- Request bookings using our booking system.
- Access to our network sites – The Wall, & Paramour Social.
- Much much more. . . .
We have built the messaging system to enable communication between clients & providers on our platform. This means that all communication be be kept of other coms channels, and social media profiles.
Privacy is key, and it provides an easy way for providers to have all of their messaging in one place.
You can start a messaging chat with a provider from their profile page. All your chats are accessible by clicking on the messaging icon in the navigation bar.
You can request a booking from a provider’s profile page. To book a service you need to be logged in, and have Paramour “tokens” available to place the booking. Tokens can be purchased from our store at any time, or from your dashboard.
Whenever you place a booking with a provider and spend a token, a portion is given back to the provider. This then helps them promote their services on Paramour.
Managing My Profile
You sure can. From your user dashboard you are able to see some basic analytics for your listing / advertisement.
Not enough views? You can promote your listing from the user dashbaord as well.
When you list your tour/s on Paramour, your profile will appear in the following areas:
- In the section of the page of the city you are touring to, under “Coming Soon”
- On the Touring Escorts page https://www.paramour.nz/touring-escorts/
- In the Members area under “Touring”, or when they search for tours
In addition to the above, one week before your tour you will also appear on the page of your tour city / region. Your profile will be identifieable with a “touring” banner. This allows for maximum exposure before your tour, and give you the chance to accept pre bookings in advance.
Good question! Please find a brief explanation of our ranking system below.
All escort profiles are given a priority number.
Standard escort listings have a priority of 1, VIP escort listings 3, and Diamond promoted listings are 6.
If your profile is not verified, your priority level reduces by 1.
When you “Thurst” your profile, your priority goes up by 1 for 2 hours.
Profiles of the same priority are sorted randomly to ensure fair exposure across all profiles on the same lsiting package / verifification status.
Not at all, but it does help you get there quicker! We have designed a gamification and “token” system to support those in financial hardship – by providing access to premium advertising features for free.
You can receive tokens for activity taken on our site, getting good reviews, having bookings placed through Paramour, and connecting on Paramour Social. These tokens can then hlp you pay for your advwertisent & promotions.
Payments
You can pay us with the following methods:
- Credit card – Visa / Mastercard
- Cryptocurrency
- Direct bank credit (note that any payments need to clear before access is provided)
As a rule, all payments and access provided to our platform is final. This is becuase there is no physical product / service that we provide. Once you pay, you have access and use of the platform.
That being said, there are of course exceptions to any rule. More information on refunds can be found in Our Terms.
Images & Video
Not at all. We understand the desire for privacy and operating discreetly. That being said, we also want to build trust with potential clients.
In order to strike this balance, we allow listings to be advertised without being verified. But unvverified listings are given a lower priority when they are sorted. That means if you are on a VIP package, but are unverified, your profile will show up below verified VIP profiles.
This naturally incentivises verification.
Showing your face is completely at your discretion. We understand that there is still a stigma around sex work, and a desire to be discreet.
If you have any videos or images that you need edited / blurred – please let us know.
You can do this when adding a listing or while editing your listing.
Simply upload a photo of yourself with some ID, and any non-edited or blurred copies of images on your profile. Once we verify your profile and photos, the verification images are permanently deleted, and your profile receives the “Verified” badge. From their, your profile will show up when a user filters listings by verification status.
Having a verified profile also reverses the unverified priority penalty.
Paramour has a strict policy of requiring that photos must be of the advertiser themselves. There is no negotiation on this policy, and violations can result in your profile and account being banned.
Your images must meet the following, or they may be removed.
- Be good quality, high resolution photos. We make minor edits to images – mostly around file size to ensure our website loads fast.
- Images must be your own and of yourself.
- Have no watermarks, including photographer’s watermarks – we will watermark your photos for you.
Paramour will not publish any of the following:
- images that are low quality (too small, dark, grainy or blurry).
- photos that we find on non escort websites, or any photo where we have doubt about the ownership of the image.
- explicit photos or videos unless they are in the selfie or VIP gallery.
- images with borders or frames that have been added with a photo program
- photos with watermarks that have been placed by the photographer to advertise their businesses – they can advertise their business on Paramour with their own listing.
- images with contact details on them, such as email, telephone or website address
